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Julie Henderson's avatar

Thank you, Jessica, for this life-enriching piece.

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Jessica, you asked, "How do you stop the wind from tunneling down your collar?" Have you heard of a winter neck gaiter? It's a ring of fabric such as Polartec that fits over your head and keeps your neck protected from the wind and cold temperatures. My family starting wearing them during our eight years living in Illinois from 1999-2007. I believe that we found winter neck gaiters at Lands End. They're available from other vendors too. Google winter neck gaiter.

So many thoughts are racing through my mind after reading your beautiful piece. I have always overextended myself because I have difficulty saying no, especially to volunteer requests for school, church, scouts and sports. My parents were volunteers, so I thought that was what one did when you had kids. I volunteered for everything whether I worked full time, part time, or did not work outside of the home. Too much pressure is put on families to do too much! I used to feel relieved when a youth baseball game or practice was rained out. A much needed break! These days, I'm more careful to spend my time volunteering for things that bring me joy.

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