Agreed, Jule. It is so disheartening how very little has changed. I think millennial women like myself were dumbstruck with disbelief as we discovered that our husbands were not going to step up and equally divide labor, but instead were going to relax into their privilege and insist on their right to do less. This is why so many women around 40 are getting divorced now.
Duuuuude, this is a genius idea!
The marriage spreadsheet is a brilliant idea. If recommended to others, you might consider the term "Partner Spreadsheet" to be more inclusive.
This made me think of this comic that went viral when I was pregnant with my second baby: https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/
I loved the "book" but am disheartened that women are still struggling with the same issues I faced forty years ago.
Agreed, Jule. It is so disheartening how very little has changed. I think millennial women like myself were dumbstruck with disbelief as we discovered that our husbands were not going to step up and equally divide labor, but instead were going to relax into their privilege and insist on their right to do less. This is why so many women around 40 are getting divorced now.