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Jule DeJager  Ward's avatar

Hi, Jessica, Welcome to parenting circa 1975ish. Enjoy!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

So far I prefer it!

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CN's avatar

Do you mind sharing what phone you replaced it with? I’m considering switching too!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

of course! It's a light phone. So far, I'm not sure I'd recommend it though :)

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CN's avatar

Okay that’s the one I’ve considered but it seems pretty expensive for what it is!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

Yes! I pre-ordered in early 2024 when it was about half the price. At its current price, I'm not sure it's worth it.

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Marie's avatar

This is great! I recently got the brick for my iPhone, and am loving it. It’s a device and app that allow you to block access to certain apps, and you can only unblock it if you tap your phone to the brick device. I’ve blocked my browser and news apps (already deleted all social media), and I want to try to keep it bricked as much as possible. Like this option as you can still use all the useful apps like maps, music or weather etc. I do still check my email a lot…. Maybe someday I’ll block that one too!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

Yes! I looked at the brick. it seems like a great option. I'm so glad it's working for you.

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Marie's avatar

Substack’s wild how I can casually chat with an author whose book I’m reading! But I’m halfway through unfit parent and loving it. Thanks for your writing!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

Thank you for reading it!!!

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Emily Ladau's avatar

A lovely reminder to disconnect...which I'm about to do for the night, thanks to this post!

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Unclenching by Chris L Vaughan's avatar

Love this, Jessica! I'll do my best to avoid my phone for hours but then I always give in. I think it's time I try this seriously. Thank you for sharing!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

It's so hard! I think our willpower just isn't enough to push past the desire to keep checking/getting that little bit of excitement.

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Unclenching by Chris L Vaughan's avatar

Totally! I think your piece really helped me figure that out. I’ll be more detached from my phone for a week then some absolutely silly will make me start checking again. I think I definitely need better boundaries when it comes to my phone!

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Mary Kaitlyn's avatar

This is really eye-opening and something that I will certainly give more thought! and beautiful poem from Emma too!

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Jessica Slice's avatar

I loved it too!

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