Archive - Whatever What Is

The actual thing that takes up most of my time

and how to talk about it

Jun 24 •

Chasing the pain around my body

Jun 9 •

halcyon, and not only in retrospect

Read to the end for book updates.

Oct 22, 2024 •

This is a way you can be

Dec 2, 2024 •

What it's like to give up a smartphone

Jun 17 •

Unfit Parent is out! Plus all the people I read poems to, unsolicited

links to interviews and more

Apr 18 •

Another post already / be careful what you wish for / BIG ANNOUNCEMENT

Well, be careful what you wish for.

Sep 1, 2022 •

nothing but their brief physical lives

Talking about moles again

May 22 •

Some changes around here

Jun 3 •

The Little Soul Roams

Unfit Parent comes out in two weeks.

Mar 31 •

Some personal news

I am not patient, and this particular process has involved a lot of waiting.

Aug 12, 2023 •

marriage spreadsheet as adaptive communication

A note: the comments on last week’s post were so thoughtful and mind-opening.

Jul 3 •

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